Reading Meg's post over at BuzzFlash (Don't Kid Yourself; the Murder of Dr. George Tiller is Part of the War Against Women) brought me back to the choir loft at Our Lady of Fatima Church. I was no more than 16 and Father Weber (the one who replaced our pedophile) was talking about the "sin" of abortion.
From somewhere I drew the strength to ask, "Even if it is known that the mother will die, maybe even leaving other children behind, abortion is wrong?" Of course, he answered, "yes". And that's when I knew, in no uncertain terms, that - Mary aside - the church was anti-woman.
Random related thoughts:
- Many of the anti-choice groups are also staunchly anti-birth control.
- Unrestricted access to birth control is the main reason why women are able to plan families and build careers.
- Anti-choice legislation is a wedge for the Catholic (and other) churchs') anti-birth control agendas. This is why the anti-choice author who joined with a pro-choice author to write a book on the common ground of reducing unwanted pregnancy was vilified by anti-choice groups. Wish I could remember the title and the authors names. I heard them interviewed on NPR a while ago.
- 90% of counties in America have no safe place for a woman to have an abortion.
- I heard someone say recently, we're not in a way of Christians against Muslims, we're in a war of moderates against fundamentalists/extremists. My observation is that the one thing all fundamentalists/extremists have in common is the degradation of women's position in society.
- Without a permanent majority of feminist men and women in positions of legislative power we are, at any given time, only one law away from equal rights.
- Anti-choice violence is absolutely terrorism.
I hope there is a generation of young women and men who are willing to do battle again for all I fought for 40 years ago.
Have Followers ≠ Leader
Watching the fearful and hate-filled mobs accosting politicians in town hall meetings I think it's time we all pause and reflect on what it means to be a leader. People in positions of leadership, by virtue of their ability to touch the lives of thousands or millions, have the awesome responsibility to act as leaders. You see holding the position of leadership and being a leader are not the same thing.
Conventional wisdom in America leads people astray when it comes to understanding leadership - at least when it comes to a prescriptive definition of leadership. Useless definitions abound. "A leader is someone who has followers." Well, unless you're comfortable being lumped in with Hitler or Osama Bin Laden, that definition is useless.
"A leader is someone who takes you where you wouldn't go by yourself" might work if you aspire to be an executive who runs your company into the ground or like Jimmy Jones who ran his people into mass suicide.
"A leader is action, not title." could be helpful if your role model is anyone who is moving in any direction - whether or not it's constructive. I can think of a few rabble rousing media types as reasons why to not use that definition.
As a developer of managers and executives in organizations, I needed a definition of leadership. Not able to find one that met 3 key criteria, I developed one. "Leadership is using the greatness in you to achieve and sustain extraordinary outcomes by engaging the greatness in others." This definition works because it is prescriptive (rules out Hitler), universal (applies to anyone, anywhere, at any level) and ubiquitous (applies across arenas - politics, business, social movements).
This definition separates the truly great political leader from someone who has followers. History has repeatedly proven that you can gather a host of followers and achieve some outcome by tapping the worst in people - their fear, greed, hatred, bigotry, racism, violence, anti-semitism (think Hitler, Osama bin Laden, Pol Pot.) They're excluded from this definition.
Truly great leaders engage the greatness in her/his followers. They engage hope, compassion, understanding, creativity, love, egalitarianism, tolerance, non-violence and curiosity. (Think Gandhi, Wangari Maathai, Martin Luther King)
So, use the definition, look around and ask yourself, who simply has followers and who are today's leaders?
Susan
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August 09, 2009 in Political Commentary | Permalink | Comments (0)